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The Divorce Mediator specializing in LGBT Divorces and Relationship Remedies
LGBT LEGISLATIVE ADVOCACY SERVICES
“Thank you for participating in our Out4Immigration Congressional Visits, a coast-to-coast effort where we will meet with our Members of Congress during the August Congressional Recess (August 3 – September 4) to keep pushing for the passage of the Uniting American Families Act (UAFA) and for its inclusion in Comprehensive Immigration Reform. This kit will give you the basic information you need before, during and after your meetings.” 

Please click  below for PDF ACTION KIT.


UAFA GRASSROOTS ACTION KIT AUGUST 2009

IUf you require advocacy assistance, please contact us by submitting the following form. Also feel free to direct e-mail


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PRIVATE COURTS AND MELANIE NATHAN PROVIDE ADVOCACY ON BEHALF OF GAY AND LESBIAN (LGBT) FAMILIES IN STRESS
 
San Francisco, California “This is a good day for this family, but their fight is not over,” said Chris Waddling, Binational Couples Outreach Director for Marriage Equality USA.  Shirley Tan, the California Mother of two who was to be deported April 3rd has been given a stay of deportation until April 22,
pending the possibility of further action. 

Thanks to the heroic efforts of her counsel, Melanie Nathan, lawyer Phyllis Beech, Rep. Jackie Speier [CA-12], Senator Dianne Feinstein, and Immigration Equality’s Julie Kruse, Ms Tan, her wife of 23 years, U.S. citizen Jay Mercado, and their two sons will not be saying goodbye to one another just yet...... read more www.oblogdeeoblogda.wordpress.com

Since working on the Shirley Tan case - I have receved numerous requests to assist Americans in same-sex binational relationships to remain together in the USA.   When Defense of Marriage Act was made law, its impact was far reaching and serves to specifically exclude same-sex couples from the immigration laws of the USA.  The absurdity of this and in my opinion unconstitutionality is evidenced by the fact tnhat some US States have legalized Gay Marriage and so there is this this rediculous anomaly created by the inability of the Federal government to provide equal treatment to all legally married couples.

There is legislation pending to change this.  It is evolving and now with the introduction by Congressman Jerrold Nadler of the  bill to repeal DOMA, "The Respect for Marriage Act," this could all change. There will be a big fight ahead.  

If you are interested in my opinions and advocacy work on the topic I invite you to my BLOG - at www.oblogdeeoblogda.wordpress.com   Please so not hesitate to provide me with your feedback.


AT Private Courts, Inc.  we Mediate all Family disputes, whether or not you have representing Counsel:-
        
Mediation Services include neutral case mediators for the following types of situations:-
  • Dissolution of domestic partnerhship - all issues;
  • Divorce issues; 
  • Custody & Visitation;
  • Child Support;
  • Spousal Support;
  • Community Property and Debt Division;
  • Interim and Transition Agreements ;
  • Parenting Plans;
  • Business and Partnership Mediation
  • Mediation financial arrangements for ongoing relationships
  • Division of Pension Plans - negotiations with Plan Administrators; and
  • Document Assistance, court filings & document service for in pro per mediation clients

Specializing in Gay, Lesbian, Transgender and Bi-sexual relationships;- creative solutions for all gay family / lesbian family relationships. We cover all gay divorce issues, from separation to dissolution in Court.  Is there gay divorce where there is no gay marriage? - Yes, in California - your domestic partnership, if registered with the State, requires a divorce process which is identical to that of a straight marriage, according to California Law.  We are the experts!

 

DENYING GAY MARRIAGE IS UNCONSTITUTIONAL-SAYS IOWA COURT JUDGE JUDGES AGREE to GAY MARRIAGE IN CALIFORNIA NEW YORK GOVERNOR SAYS NY WILL RECOGNIZE GAY MARRIAGES FROM CANADA AND OTHER STATES
SUPPORT UAFA- BI-NATIONAL COUPLES AND FAMILIES ENTITLED TO IMMIGRATION STATUS.


READ BLOGS ON WEBSITE OF OLIVIA CRUISES:

"ADVOCAY APATHY" by Melanie Nathan

LGBT MEDIATOR



UAFA, Gay Marriage, Gay immigration, Lesbian marriage, LGBT, GLBT, GAy immigration, bi-national  gay couples
CLICK HERE GAY IMMIGRATION DISCRIMINATION
CALIFORNIA  STATE REGISTERED DOMESTIC  PARTNERS ARE NOW REQUIRED, BY LAW, TO FILE FOR DISSOLUTION OF THEIR STATUS IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF CALIFORNIA.

PRIVATE COURTS FOR TRADITIONAL DIVORCE - PLEASE CLICK HERE.  LGBT and all families are invited to explore the PRIVATE COURTS WEBsite for more details; as a great amount of the material is applicable to all families.  We look forward to the day when we do not have to distinguish between LGBT and Straight families......   ALL ARE WELCOME.


DIVORCE MEDIATOR: Specialty in coming out cases...

PRIVATE COURTS™ , founded by Melanie Nathan, is a unique mediation firm, where participants may have separate attorneys or respresent themselves in all matters pertaining to relationship; pre-marital disputes, marital continuation negotiations, dissolution and divorce.  We deal with children, custody, visitation and co-parenting.   This is a non adversarial full management method, where you are provided with assistance for every aspect of your matter.  We pride ourselves on our neutrality and look forward to being of assistance to Traditional and LGBT families. Please explore out sites and give Melanie a call to see how we can help you:

MELANIE NATHAN  

PRIVATE COURTS TRADITIONAL

PRIVATE COURTS LGBT


 

Mediation is a non-adversarial method to resolve your relationship issues.  Parties attend mediation to reach agreement to help continue or dissolve their Relationships, whether or not you are married, in a domestic partnership or co-habiting.

The Mediator is a neutral who help the parties reach  agreement on any issues of their choice. The Parties copntrol the outcome and the dultimate decisions that are made. There are different styles, forms and methods of mediation.  

Marriage and Divorce for Gay and Lesbians in California;
We can dissole Canadian marriages;
Domestic Partnerships - agreements before registration;

Domestic Partners -education and seminars about the laws of marriage;
LGBT Partnerships/ Families - Mediation;
Dissolution document assistance and filing in Court;
Dissolution of Domestic Partnerships;
Custody, Child Support, Alimony; and
Division of Community Property.

415.801.1099       

 


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e are dedicated to helping Domestic Partners, Married Spouses, LGBT Families, Straight Spouses to unravel the legal complexities of these relationships, with agreements to enhance or terminate the relationship.  Parenting Plans can be invaluable in coparenting relationships.

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PRIVATE COURTS much guidance and information available.


We provide an opportunity for face to face discourse. The result is usually the resolution of your conflict. Children benefit from this approach where conflict is controlled with the assistance of experts. We are able to help you resolve the issues with creative and pragmatic solutions. If you mediate first, we are able to refer you, on an as needed basis, to representing attorneys on a consulting and reviewing basis. This reduces cost, time and stress. You maintain control over your family's future by having the Judge implement your agreement. You may never need to appear in Court.


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In 1790 George Washington declared, “As mankind becomes more liberal, they will be more apt to allow that all those who conduct themselves as worthy members of the community are equally entitled to the protections of civil government. I hope ever to see America among the foremost nations of justice and liberality.”
Mediation is a non-adversarial method to resolve your relationship issues.  Parties attend mediation to reach agreement to help continue or dissolve their Relationships, whether or not you are married, in a domestic partnership or co-habiting.

The Mediator is a neutral who help the parties reach  agreement on any issues of their choice. The Parties copntrol the outcome and the dultimate decisions that are made. There are different styles, forms and methods of mediation.  

Marriage and Divorce for Gay and Lesbians in California;
We can dissole Canadian marriages;
Domestic Partnerships - agreements before registration;

Domestic Partners -education and seminars about the laws of marriage;
LGBT Partnerships/ Families - Mediation;
Dissolution document assistance and filing in Court;
Dissolution of Domestic Partnerships;
Custody, Child Support, Alimony; and
Division of Community Property.

We are a mediation only firm.  We do not represent either Party.   We do not practice law.   We facilitate discussions and agreements between the Parties only.  We offer  document assistance to in pro per mediation clients only. We refer clients to consulting, reviewing and representing counsel as the case may be, for advice, upon request.    Mediation is non binding until agreements are signed by both Parties.  Nothing on this website should be construed as advice.  Parties take responsibility for obtaining separate legal advice, as needed. Copyright Melanie Nathan Mediation.© All rights reservedl 2003-2006.